Thankfulness!

Thankful! 


I was reading a blog this morning about contentment, written by some friends of mine.  I am very fortunate to know both of these beautiful ladies!  Contentment, isn’t this what we are searching for in a world filled with confusion, sorrow, chaos and contention?  Check out their blog and website: 


I find in myself that it is much easier to complain about what isn’t going right and sharing that notion, instead of thinking and expressing thankfulness!  Where do you start when you feel so bogged down with this heaviness of responsibility and oppression of life?  And often uncontrolled circumstances that are, or feel anyway, simply outside of your control?  What frustration!!

It isn’t just me with the struggle but many others feel and experience the same thing.  How do we change?  What will make the significant difference in our own life?  One of my friends is soon to have a book released about her own life story, telling us through her life experience how to make this radical change in your life style.  Check out their (a mother and daughter team) new website!  Don’t miss it!!  http://aradicaldifference.com/.   Since I haven’t had the opportunity to read her story yet….I am anxiously waiting! 


To me, my perception of changing things starts with just one word.  One word can change a bad attitude, it can reform your heart and even change your character!!  The one missing link is when we use this word and just gloss over it, or think of it for a moment than continue in the old frame of mind…complaining!  Don’t just read it, or think of it briefly, but live it and breathe it in like oxygen to your soul, because it is!  What am I talking about, you say?  I am talking about the spirit of thankfulness.  Grab it and hold it close to your heart and your mind.  Replace the spirit of complaining with a spirit of thankfulness.  

Where do we start?  Take a breath and breathe in and every time you breathe in, think of something you are thankful for.  Even if you are in the most oppressive environment in the world, and you feel like the world is going to suffocate you, thankfulness is the oxygen and the medication your heart and mind need to change things, to make things alive again where your spirit can live again.  Thankfulness is the key to the closed door of oppression and hopelessness.  And, I think, you might be surprised that once you start listing, in your mind and heart, all those things you are genuinely thankful for, you will be so surprised!  Even in God’s word, He tells us one of his principles is thankfulness.     
1 Thessalonians 5:18  in everything give thanks; for this is God’s will for you in Christ Jesus.

Let go!  If we don’t let go of a bad attitude, it can never be replaced by a good one.  If we don’t let go of the bad thoughts, how can they be replaced with the good ones.  And if we can’t stop complaining, there is no room for being thankful.  Sometimes oppression or a bad attitude comes from those things we cannot change.  So, stop trying!  It isn’t meant for you to change it, only God can change that which needs to be changed.  4 So you will find favor and good repute In the sight of God and man. 5 Trust in the LORD with all your heart And do not lean on your own understanding. 6 In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight.…
Psalm 37:5
Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, and He will do it.


As you start to count your blessings, I think you will find love is surrounded by all of it, all that you are thankful for.  It is in everything you are thankful for!  It really isn’t a surprise.   Everything is a choice…wouldn’t you rather be surrounded by love, than be surrounded by complaining?
 
So, what is required to change the attitude of oppression to an attitude of life and breathing freely?  I think it might be a requirement to “Forgive”.  Forgive yourself for drowning in a muck of negative thoughts and forgive those around you, because often they don’t see life through the lens of life through thankfulness and praise! – All mixed with a hardy dose of forgiveness!  
  
One of my favorite verses that encompass forgiveness and thankfulness is Philippians 4:8 – So whatever is worthy of “Praise” “Thankfulness” – think on these things!  Finally, brethren, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is of good repute, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, dwell on these things.

Honesty also helps us to see things clearly.  If we don’t see the need to change, then we won’t change.  Be honest with yourself and those around you.  The only thing we can change is that person we see in the mirror.  I find that the longer I focus on thankfulness and God’s promises (which I am very thankful for - the more clearly I can see.  Not that which is in another person, but that which is found within me. 

When it comes to trust, I think this is another element in the formula of living a life filled with contentment.  We need something to trust in, don’t you think?  Well, when all else fails in this world of constant change, my trust lies in a God that NEVER changes!  He also says to trust in Him rather than, in man or money, or temporal things that are here on this earth. 
“Lean not unto your own understanding - For length of days, and long life, and peace, shall they add to thee. 3Let not mercy and truth forsake thee: bind them about thy neck; write them upon the table of thine heart: 4So shalt thou find favor and good understanding in the sight of God and man. 5Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. 6In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. 7Be not wise in thine own eyes: fear the LORD, and depart from evil. 8It shall be health to thy navel, and marrow to thy bones.  Yes, “trusting in the right source will restore your hope”.

Part of the process of being thankful, is actually speaking life.  Because when we murmur and complain it really is a slow process of death.  Praising God and being thankful for everything we have in our life is the same thing as speaking life to a situation, a moment in time and our daily walk in this journey of life.  Speak it, live it and eventually feel it! 

I have to smile when I think about God always talking to us, because He is, we need just to listen.  How often do we close our ears to Him?  To those of us that do listen, he has written His words on our heart and mind, giving us the power to praise and the strength to be thankful, and the eyes to see that each promise is truth brought alive.   As we rest in Him and trust in Him, He puts before us more and more to be thankful for.  Until one day we realize that our heart is filled with His JOY!!!  

Mathew 11:29 - …28 Come to Me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. 29 Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”…  Oh, how we need this rest!  It is all found in thankfulness!
I am thankful that I can connect with you through this blog.  And God has given me really the heart of a child, where playing is never off limits, in fact it is encouraged.  God himself tells us that we need to have the heart of a child to enter the Kingdom of Heaven!  …2 Jesus called a little child to stand among them. 3“Truly I tell you, He said, “unless you change and become like little children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven. 4 Therefore, whoever humbles himself like this little child is the greatest in the kingdom of heaven.…

JUST DO IT, don’t just dream it, but live it!  Live a life of thankfulness!  Live a life filled with the Holy Spirit! God says in the end days, that he will gives us dreams and prophesy!  What is His greatest commandment? Loving others as we love ourselves?  Loving God with everything we have!  How do we accomplish this?  By having a heart that is filled with thankfulness!  When you see your’ loved one next time, tell them thank you for being who they are, because they were made in the image of an almighty God!  When you see your friend in the store or where ever they may be, tell them thank you for being there for you, because they too were made in the image and likeness of God!  Even when you see your enemy, thank God for them because God made them too in His likeness and image.   You may want to share your lens of life with them, so they too see things with a very thankful heart!  Genesis 1:27 - 27God created man in His own image, in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.
 
God bless you today and every day!  And thank you for reading this post today. 

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